Shirley Mae Fitzgerald Estabrooke

Shirley Mae Fitzgerald Estabrooke

February 25, 1948 - January 07, 2023

Shirley Mae Fitzgerald Estabrooke

February 25, 1948 - January 07, 2023


Shirley Mae Fitzgerald Estabrooke, 74, of Montross, VA went to be with the Lord on Saturday, January 7, 2023. She was born on February 25, 1948, in Alexandria, VA to the late Theodore and Bertha Fitzgerald. She graduated from Stonewall Jackson High School, Manassas, VA. Shirley held a rewarding and distinguished career in both the IBM and Lockheed Martin corporations. She was a proud and faithful member of the Shiloh Baptist Church in King George, Virginia. Shirley is also preceded in death by her brother, Roger Fitzgerald and brother in law Ralph Haines.

Shirley was adored by all who had the privilege of knowing her. Her love, beauty, faith, insanely infectious humor, honesty, empathy, as a mother, wife, sister, aunt, daughter, friend, and Mimi to her ten incredible grandchildren has been incomparable. She is imprinted in the best way on us all.

She is survived by her beloved husband of 26 years, Dr. Robert G. Estabrooke; daughters, Angie Thrasher (Dave) of Chesterfield, VA and Stefanie Pazerunas (Joe) of Lombard, IL; stepdaughter, Deborah Dailey (Frank) Poughkeepsie, NY; stepson, Robert T. Estabrooke (Christine) of Fairfax, VA; grandchildren, Tyler, Madison, and Dylan Thrasher; Olivia and Sam Pazerunas; Ashley Johnson and Brandon Dailey; Taylor, Morgan and Robbie Estabrooke; great grandson Blake; sister, Betty Haines; and brother Russell Fitzgerald, many nieces and nephews, as well as her sweet fur baby Riley.

The family will join together with friends and loved ones at 10:30am, Saturday, February 25, 2023 at Shiloh Baptist Church, 13457 Kings Hwy., King George, VA . Her Celebration of Life Service will be officiated by Reverend Randolph Allensworth and Reverend Richard Headley at 11am and a reception will immediately follow.

Celebration of Life

  • Date & Time: February 25, 2023 (10:30 AM)
  • Venue: Shiloh Baptist Church
  • Location: 13457 Kings Hwy King George , VA 22485 - (Get Directions)
  • Phone Number: (540) 775-4646

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12 responses to Shirley Mae Fitzgerald Estabrooke

  1. Shirley always had a smile at IBM/Lockheed Martin, an inspiring lady to be near. My condolences to Bob and the family. Sheree Northrup

  2. Bob and family we are saddened to learn of your loss. The IBM retiree email and social media have been active notifying everyone of your loss.
    Maury & Vera Gerson
    Manassas, Va.

  3. Dear Bob, Angie, Stefanie, and family,

    I am heart-broken to learn of Shirley’s passing and so sorry for your loss.
    Shirley was without question the kindest person I’ve ever met. She was special and Bob, you, and Shirley were special together. She and I used to chat about how fortunate she was to have met you and how fortunate I was to have met my Fred. I know your pain and I share it with you.


  4. Mary Dickins says:

    Bob and Family,

    My deepest sympathies to you and your family. May God give you the peace that you seek. Remembering Shirley’s wonderful and gentle soul, as well as, her smile and sense of humor will remain in our hearts forever. May she rest in peace.

    Mary Dickins

  5. My deepest sympathy and prayers to Shirley’s family and l

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