Obituary

Stephen Roscoe Kanode “Big Sexy”, 60, of Midlothian, Virginia, passed away peacefully in the arms of his wife on January 20, 2026. He lived a life defined by faith, dedication, laughter, and genuine kindness, leaving behind a legacy that will never be forgotten.

Steve proudly served seven years in the United States Marine Corps achieving the rank of Sergeant. He served during Operation Desert Storm, where he earned the National Defense Medal and the Medal for the Liberation of Kuwait. He also was awarded a Meritorious Mast in recognition of his exemplary performance and dedication. During his service, he worked as an electrician for a five hundred bed field hospital, was a member of the MEDEVAC reaction force, and also served as a perimeter guard, roles that reflected his dependability, courage, and commitment to protecting others.

Following his military service, Steve followed his dream of becoming a truck driver and built an outstanding civilian career working for various trucking companies including being a road driver for the past 26 years at FedEx Freight. He was known for “keeping the highways sexy” and was widely respected for his professionalism and dedication, achieving the remarkable milestone of over 3 million safe driving miles throughout the course of his career.

Above all else, Steve deeply loved his family. His greatest joy was the life he shared with his wife, Lisa, who was not only the love of his life but also his best friend and soulmate. Their bond was one of laughter, partnership, and unwavering devotion. A relationship that was full of love for each other and for God. Steve also cherished the time he got to spend with his children and grandchildren. He especially loved making memories with them at the lake, their pool, or just sitting around a fire enjoying their company. He always held these memories close to his heart.

Outside of work and family, Steve enjoyed hunting and spending time outdoors. He loved traveling, relaxing on the beach, and looking for sharks teeth. He especially loved going on cruises with his wife, creating memories filled with joy and adventure. Steve was a dedicated volunteer and lifetime member of VFW Post 2239. He enjoyed competing in the Virginia Truck Driving Competitions, helped with outreach projects for Kingdom Harvest, and volunteered for Mid Cities civic association and Easter Seals. He was passionate about Wreaths Across America and the Virginia Heroes Banner Project.

Charismatic and full of personality, Steve was known for his humor, warmth, and unmistakable presence. He was funny, “sexy”, and a joy to be around, with a smile that could light up any room. Most of all, he was truly a good person- kind, loyal, and deeply loved by all who knew him.

Steve is survived by his wife and best friend, Lisa Kanode, their children; Stephen B. Kanode (Ashley), William “T.J.” Jeter III (Ashley), Victoria Fulgencio (Russell), Brittany Kanode (Logan), Kristen Kanode (Jesse), Megan Jeter, Matthew Kanode, two honorary daughters; Anike Oyebade and Gabby Brown, his father; Jack Allen, his siblings; Roger Allen (Debbie), Roscoe “Rocky” Kanode (Missy), Jimmy Kanode, and Robert Allen, grandchildren; Vyncent, Xander “A.J.”, Liam, and Brinlee, as well a host of nieces, nephews, and extended family.

Steve is preceded in death by his biological father, Roscoe Kanode, mother; Lyndia Allen, bonus mom; Kathy Allen, sisters; Jacqueline Katina Allen and Pam Davis, and brother; David Fuller.

A visitation for Stephen will be held on January 27, 2026 from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at Morrissett Funeral and Cremation Service, 6500 Iron Bridge Rd, North Chesterfield, VA, 23234. A Celebration of Life will be held the following day, January 28, at 10:30 AM in the chapel at Morrissett.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to Sunset Memorial Wreaths Across America – Wreaths Across America